Reading your mum's email, when she says "you must be firm and calm to receive all the stress given to you", I think she's saying that whatever she and other people say, it is YOU who must be strong-willed eonugh to make your own decisions and handle the stress.
~Mr. HEA~
I think I posted during Mother's Day that I have been rather upset with mum over all that pressure for me to have a child or three soon. Darling Mr.HEA had been helping soothe me down and helping me enjoy the trip ahead of me.
And truth be told it hasn't been an easy feat, but the magic of one taking it as a joke and the brushing off lightly of a serious topic slices tension like a knife through butter. I was back in KL and Mum demanded for grandchildren again as usual so I placed these freaky babies in her palm and told her to take very good care of them.
I suppose it is just as hard for them to make these demands as it is for us to disappoint them. In a way, they only want what is good for us and they are afraid to hear that the reasons may be that we are struggling, be it financially or health-wise. So, whilst I used to find it a probing and detested the question, I think I have risen above it all and am now able to cope better. There are worse things in life to focus your energy on than being angry with people who really care about you.





